The Absent Father
 

Are You Still Hurting from an Absent Childhood Father? Get Emotional Relief

You had an absent father if you answer any of this questions with yes:

Did your father abandon you when you were a child?
Have you never had contact with your father, or only for a very short time?
Did your father die when you were a child or an adolescent?
Has your father been sometimes in your life but absent for long periods of time?
Was your father physically present but emotionally unavailable or rejecting you?

Fathers can be absent in the lives of their daughters and sons in many ways, and all of them hurt. There are dire statistics about the effect of a missing father in the family (poverty, substance abuse, lack of education), but even if they don't apply, you might experience one or more of the following symptons in your adult life:

heart A big hole in your heart, an emotional emptiness that never seems to go away
heart Low self-esteem, feeling worthless
heart Feeling unsafe and anxious
heart Abandonment and anger issues
heart Unsure about being a man (a woman)

Learn more about the impact of an absent childhood father in the life of an adult

Please read before exploring my website: DISCLAIMER

czm

My name is Carna Zacharias-Miller. I am a certified EFT practitioner and emotional wellness coach. EFT, also called "tapping", is a form of mindful acupressure. You do not need to know how to do it, I can teach you in our phone sessions. On occasion I use Matrix Reimprinting which is an extended, more visual form of EFT.

I know how you feel. I grew up with divorced parents, a completely missing mother and a father who was absent in my early childhood. I have worked with hundreds of clients through the pain that "missing parents" cause.

Using EFT ("tapping") can help:

- Release the negative charge of longstanding, painful childhood emotions
- Neutralize haunting memories
- Create -often very powerful- cognitive shifts
- Make you feel better, lighter, more positive and peaceful

What is EFT?

Please look around, download the free EFT script, and contact me for a free consultation.

If you have a "missing mother", or

To subscribe to my blog/articles, please go to  www.missingmother.com


The gifts of highly sensitive persons

Recently, I re-read Elaine Aron’s groundbreaking book "The Highly Sensitive Person". Are you one? 

Posted May 17, 2012 11 Reads Read Article...

Go www.EFTfree.net!

All about EFT, including a comprehensive how-to manual as a free download.

Posted Apr 18, 2012 73 Reads Read Article...

Using EFT for Spiritual Growth

Since EFT is such a wonderful method to work from aches to zits on everything, we sometimes forget its awesome spiritual context.

Posted Apr 12, 2012 180 Reads Read Article...

EFT for Money & Love

Have you noticed how similar our language patterns are when we talk about the lack of money – and love? Always a struggle…never getting what I want and need…not worthy…this yearning…

Posted Mar 28, 2012 128 Reads Read Article...

Questions a father should never ask

Fathers and mothers  can do serious emotional damage to their children by asking them aggressive rhetorical questions.

Posted Mar 24, 2012 197 Reads Read Article...

New EFT pattern: Heart of Gold

Silvia Hartmann's new EFT protocol that makes you feel better on so many levels. Try it!

Posted Mar 16, 2012 140 Reads Read Article...

Absent father different for boys and girls

An absent father affects sons and daughters in different ways

Posted Mar 9, 2012 346 Reads Read Article...

So, why do we suffer so much again?

An absent father or a missing mother can cause much suffering later in life. And what is the point of that?

Posted Mar 5, 2012 194 Reads Read Article...

A little help for tapping on yourself

Many EFTers don't quite know how to tap effectively on their own. Here is help.

Posted Feb 27, 2012 176 Reads Read Article...

Rendezvous with Cupid

Love can hurt when your heart got wounded, for example by an absent father.

Posted Feb 14, 2012 211 Reads Read Article...

Presidential Fathers

The psychology of politics. Draw your own conclusions...

Posted Feb 10, 2012 190 Reads Read Article...

Is Father's Day a joke?

Every year, Father's Day is an opportunity for sending a funny card - or to delve deeper into a very primal relationship. It's your choice.

Posted Jun 18, 2011 1,409 Reads Read Article...

Public exposure: Oh, the fear and shame

Supposedly more people are afraid of public speaking than of death. I don't believe this. Actually given the choice, most people would head for the podium, I am quite sure of that. However, it definitely shows how frightened most of us are of being seen and heard "out there."

Posted Apr 15, 2011 1,659 Reads Read Article...

Anger! 6 ways to deal with it effectively

Most of us get angry once in a while - and then we feel guilty, especially if we are female. Here are some ways to handle it.

Posted Mar 26, 2011 2,369 Reads Read Article...

Immediate stress relief with EFT

When you feel overwhelmed and don't know what words to use: Here is an emercency EFT protocol for stress relief.

Posted Mar 11, 2011 1,941 Reads Read Article...

An absent father causes conflicts in his daughter's work life

Was your father absent in your childhood? If you are a woman, this may be the reason for several dilemmas in your professional life.

Posted Mar 3, 2011 3,126 Reads Read Article...

Absent fathers can make for strong sons and daughters

Although there are deep wounds and challenges associated with an absent childhood father, it also can make for high achievers.

Posted Feb 25, 2011 2,073 Reads Read Article...

Healing the wound of an absent father

How a father who abandoned his daughter emotionally can affect her relationships with men. Four tapping sessions made a big difference.

Posted Feb 13, 2011 2,373 Reads Read Article...

The painful feeling of "not good enough"

Men and women who had an absent father or a missing mother (physically or emotionally) in their childhood, often feel not good enough. EFT protocol for tapping on "I am not good enough". Continue working on your personal memories, emotions, and body sensations.

Posted Feb 13, 2011 2,974 Reads Read Article...

Go bad to feel better

How bad are you really? What lurks in the dark corners of your mind? You will be surprised and rewarded when you actually go there...

Posted Oct 19, 2010 3,635 Reads Read Article...
1-20 of 33